Essay/Term paper: Tv shows and real life

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TV Shows and Real Life


TV shows are probably the primary source of entertainment for the
average American. Most of them run from 7 p.m. to 10 p.m. with reruns starting
at 5 p.m. We watch them because they give us something to do, a way to relax,
something to help pass the time. We all watch different shows, some people like
"Married...with Children", some are repulsed with it, but like to watch "Home
Improvement", what draws particular crowds to certain shows? How do these shows
portray the average American, or do they portray average Americans at all?
These are questions many writers have attempted to answer, at least one column
in almost every newspaper is dedicated to this topic. I think the people like
to see shows that portray them, or what they'd like to be.
"Married...with Children" runs on Fox 29 on Mondays at 8:30 p.m., it has
been on air for a long time, and has passed its 200th episode last season. The
main characters of the show is women's shoe salesman Al Bundy, his wife Peg,
dorky son Bud, and slutty daughter Kelly. Al loves to watch TV, bowl with his
buddies, drink and go to the "nudy bar". Marcie and Jefferson, are the Bundy's
neighbors and also take an active part in the show. Most shows consist of Al
going somewhere or doing something and everyone else making fun of him when he
fails miserably. Al is someone you can hardly call a father to his kids, he's
doesn't take care of them and he does absolutely nothing father-like for them or
with them. Al is constantly complaining about his marriage, he says that if he
was sober that night, none of this would have happened. He calls his children
accidents and the only good memory he has, is of him being a great high school
football player, which he would take to the next level had all his dreams not
been crushed by Peg. The only living thing Al really likes on the show is his
dog, Buck, to which he can relate as they are both dirty and nasty. Every show
it is the same kind of thing, over and over again. Peg is trying to convince Al
to have sex, Al blames Peg for his failure in life, Kelly is screwing some guy
in the back seat of a car, and Bud is looking at "nudy magazines". Last Monday,
the 27, Al decided to join the Army Reserve in order to escape his family. John
Ozersky writes in his article entitled "TV's Anti-Families: Married...With
Malaise", "These shows portray a downfall of Dad, but no rise of Mom. By
presenting unhappy families to viewers, the viewers tend to feel better about
themselves, on the contrary, the viewer's expectations in their own lives
decrease as a result of this. By making our problems "all right by comparison",
the series trivializes them, rather than taking them seriously. The
dysfunctional TV family aids advertisers in their perennial quest for
credibility by creating a supersaturated atmosphere of irony, which atrophies
our ability to believe in anything" (Ozersky 215). But the reason people watch
the show is simple, it portrays our worst fears in a way we can laugh at them,
and who wouldn't want to laugh at their fear, an "in your face, I'm not as bad
as you" kind of laugh. My dad wouldn't let me watch this show until I was 14
years-old, because he thought it would give me the wrong idea about real family
life.
Another show about family life is "Home Improvement". It portrays a
traditional family, Tim and Jill are a married couple and they have three kids
of different ages. Tim and Jill always argue about something, if it isn't about
what Tim did, or about what Jill did, it's about what their kids did. The kids
are also constantly fighting, the two bigger brothers always picking on the
smaller one. It is a funny and entertaining version of the upper-middle class
family. The role of the father in this show is clear, he is manly, he grunts,
he works with power tools, and he can't stand when someone besides him has the
power. This is shown in the episode when Jill opens her own checking account,
Tim is upset, he can't control where the money goes any more, even though it
isn't his money, he'd like to have control over it. So by the end of the
episode, Jill gives in, a portrayal of female weakness and man's superiority,
and the account is joined. The episode is filled with funny jokes, one-line
comebacks and other funny stuff which keeps the show on top of the rating charts.
No one notices the subtle messages the show is sending, "men have the power",
"women have to do what they are told". Of course no one notices these messages
unless you take the show apart piece by piece and compare different episodes,
but they are there. People watch this show because it brings up common everyday
issues that we, ourselves have to deal with, and settles them in ways that are
funny.
"Married...with Children" and "Home Improvement" may seem to have
nothing in common on first glance, but if examined closer we find that they are
in fact alike. Both shows joke around about family life, portray the father and
mother as each having their own roles in the house that never cross, and both
shows deal with common everyday issues. "Married...with Children" is a
caricature of an everyday family. They make fun of not only themselves, but of
normal families as well, when such are mentioned on the show. "Home
Improvement" although being the more realistic of the two shows, also makes fun
of family life as I know it. We always see Tim working on his Hot Rod, or else
installing a new gadget in the house and Jill cooking or cleaning the house.
That is not how life is in my family, or for that matter any family that I know.
My mom cooks most of the time, just because she's better at it than my dad, but
my dad is always cleaning the house, their roles aren't as divided as Tim and
Jill's seem to be. And the kids on either of the shows never clean anything, or
do anything around the house, when in every family I know, the kids always help
with the cleaning, and I am not talking about cleaning their own rooms, I mean
actual dusting and vacuuming of the house, doing the dishes, mowing the lawn as
well as performing other household chores. The one thing that both shows
portray very well is the problems that each of the families face, this is one
thing that almost everyone can relate to. The Bundy's constant lack of money,
their focus on the division of female and male roles, and the problems of the
kids always disrespecting their parents. The Taylor's also focus on the
division of female and male roles, as well a the division of power between Tim
and Jill, but the money problem and the kids disrespecting their parents are
issues that rarely come up on this show as the Taylors are higher in class,
manners and standards than the Bundys.
Personally, I like both these shows and watch them whenever I have the
time, that is why I chose to examine them. The apparent division in power and
gender roles on both these shows was something new even to me, I never noticed
it before, or may be just didn't give it much thought. The thing that amazed me
the most is how alike these shows are. When I watch TV I never think to compare
any two shows, especially not these two, I just try to have a pleasant viewing
experience and may be get a couple of good laughs. Taking the shows apart and
examining them like this has only cleared up my mind, now whenever I watch TV, I
tend to think, "What is this show really trying to say?"

MATERIALS READ

Brubach, Holly. "Rock and Roll Vaudeville". St. Martin's Press, Signs of Life,
1994.

Faludi, Susan. "Teen Angels and Tart-Tongued Witches". St. Martin's Press, Signs
of Life, 1994.

Kirn, Walter. "Twentysomethings". St. Martin's Press, Signs of Life, 1994.

Ozersky, John. "TV's Anti-Families: Married...with Malaise" St. Martin's Press,
Signs of Life, 1994.

SHOWS VIEWED

Six "Tool Time" episodes viewed for paper. Two of them in class. Others on own
time, including one new episode and five reruns.

Four episodes of "Married...with Children". Saw one new episode, and three
reruns.